About Me

Hi, I’m Pam and this is my story.

My life could have worked out very differently for me had I not made the commitment to believe in myself and throw myself into large scale learning and understanding.

I could, just as easily, have stayed where I was, blaming others, feeling hurt, being angry and resentful, and feeling completely inadequate in one way or another, but then ‘they’, the people who hurt me so deeply, would have won.

And there is no darn way, under any circumstances, was I ever going to let that happen. My passion for growth, inspired by my hunger for knowledge, absolutely ensured that I stayed on track and overcame instead of succumbing.

Growing up in an uneducated and abusive family environment, and living on the poorer side of town, taught me a different side of human nature and one that was very different from the general middle-class upbringing that many people have. I hated that we had to struggle for everything and decided very early on that when I had my own family, I was going to do everything to make it a wonderful life and one worth remembering.

I am so very proud to say that I did just that.

And now, by overcoming my own adversity, I am able to help more people overcome theirs.

You are invited to join me on a journey of self-discovery to uncover your own personal success story.

Pamela Millican

” Through coaching from Pam I went from angry, lost, and confused to assertive and aware of my own identity. Pam helped me see what I thought of as my flaws as what made me strong and individual and she provided me with the tools and knowledge to be proud of myself and who I am again. Pam has had an unbelievable influence on my family of strong women. “

Zoe Lovelock

Coffs Harbour

Age may have a time limit, but time has no age limit!

Don’t waste another minute feeling less than your best.

Pamela Millican

But I’m more than my story!

Mindset Mastery and trailblazer Pamela Millican can teach anyone to get to the next level no matter what that level is, or where the person is in relation to that level.  How can she be so sure? Because she has done it herself.  Starting with winning multiple waveski surfing titles including the British, Welsh, and Cornish titles; and being the first and only female to compete in the Grade A division along with the men rapidly working her way from the bottom of that to being in the top 16…. culminating in winning the European Titles in France – all within one year of learning to surf!  She has coached PT and  TV show star Tenille Duncan to go from being a runner up 6 years in a row at the WBFF World Titles  (World Beauty Fitness and Fashion) to finally taking out the whole competition in all her categories and winning her pro status card, with just a few short months of coaching.

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Pamela has coached countless other high profile clients take their sport and life to a higher level from golfers doubling their PB after just one session to basketballers being sought after by top American teams; Business men/women wanting to break through their invisible glass ceiling as well as PTs who use the tools they learn from her to help their own clients get better and faster results.  Many others have benefitted from her intense love and care to help them become the very best versions of themselves and to not give up when the going got rough.

As a child growing up in poverty with constant abuse and complete abandonment at 15.½ years old when she came home to a completely empty house and everything she owned had been thrown out. She knows what it takes to struggle against pervasive feelings of rejection, be full of self doubt, worry and fear, and yet still refuse to let the adversity that life challenges bring destroy you … rather to fight it, surpass it and turn that adversity into motivation, using it as a tool to succeed instead. lients take their sport and life to a higher level from golfers doubling their PB after just one session to basketballers being sought after by top American teams; Business men/women wanting to break through their invisible glass ceiling as well as PTs who use the tools they learn from her to help their own clients get better and faster results. Many others have benefitted from her intense love and care to help them become the very best versions of themselves and to not give up when the going got rough.

Living on stolen food in an attic Pamela was determined to understand exactly what makes people tick and behave the way they do. She has spent her entire life learning, growing, training and gaining multiple qualifications in human behavior, mindset mastery, emotional intelligence and the science behind the power of thought. Her knowledge and training is as deep as it is wide and she wields it, to ensure you get results you want, with as much speed and expertise as that of a samurai with a sword in battle.

She is a mother of two beautiful independent girls who she taught to be problem solving solution oriented beings as very small children all the while working full time, being a hands on parent and completing a law degree at the same time. She is very proud of her now adult girls who are both extremely competent and winning their very own awards.

Pamela turns 60 years old in January 2022 and still runs her life with unrivalled determination, motivation and grit as if she were in her 20s. She has an infectious enthusiasm for life, and leads the charge by example still playing representative netball into her 50s and learning to fly helicopters in her 59th year… among many other things. Most people ask her what she hasn’t done, figuring it will be a much shorter list

Her whole mission in life is to teach, nurture and show you that no matter where you started, what you are currently dealing with, or how you got to where you are now, that it is never too late to make a change, to reset and live your life by design rather than by default. Just as she did with her 55 year old client Cathy who was contemplating the worst and had all he means to do so (her words in a video testimonial). Fast forward 11 years and Cathy is now happily training dogs for competitions and thriving in her position as a senior Vet Nurse. Pamela teaches you that life is not only precious but that it happens FOR you and not TO you. She truly empowers you to get excited about your world and to go after your dreams with as much determination as you would if you were Usain Bolt taking off from the starting blocks

She will challenge you, call you out and 100% make you accountable says World Champion Fitness Model Tenille Duncan, but she will also, unfailingly, bring out the very best in you. All done with cheeky humour, a deep sense of love, total presence and true care. Spiritual Mama Bree Hateley shares that ‘Pamela makes you feel like you are the most important person in the world to her’.

Still others affectionately call her the smiling assassin … and she loves that.

She is passionate beyond ordinary, loves what she does and will also teach you that giving up is never an option, that failure is feedback and that all adversity when used properly is simply a new prompting for immeasurable growth.

She is passionate beyond ordinary, loves what she does and will also teach you that giving up is never an option, that failure is feedback and that all adversity when used properly is simply a new prompting for immeasurable growth.

And last but not least, she will teach you that you can create an incredible life for yourself, and will give you all the strategies and tools you need to achieve whatever you set your mind to … she knows exactly how and what to teach you because she has done it all for herself, by herself . She has won many awards, both business, sporting and personal; has bought a couple of houses; travelled the world; lived for months in other countries; ridden on elephants necks up rivers; suffered uncomfortable camels in North Africa; shot AK47s in Vietnam; dug water irrigation trenches in Burma for orphanages; spent time with girls rescued from the sex trade in Thailand; jumped out of planes; scuba dove deep in the ocean; sailed 30 ft yacht; played elite level sports and succeeds at just about everything she does.

The point of sharing all of that is that Pamela wholeheartedly believes that everyone can live their life this way when they stop allowing their environment to dictate who they are and what they can, or cannot achieve. Essentially when they get themselves out of the way, real magic happens and every tool, strategy and technique that you learn from Pamela will take you one giant step closer to materialising your goals and living your dream life.

ARE YOU READY TO Reset  YOUR LIFE?

If you are living with fear and doubt you are missing out – thats not what life is meant to be like … If you give me your time  I promise I will help you break up with both fear and doubt so you can finally feel good about yourself and live you life your own way.
Why waste another minute .. let alone another year feeling less than you would really like to when there is no better tune than right now to take action